Here is just a quick note on New Year’s Resolutions
("nyr"). Some massive percentage of nyrs are broken by the end of
January, so my basic advice is don't make any. Making yourself promises that
you are almost certainly going to fail at is only going to make you feel
guilty, which isn't helpful. I am generally against making promises that you
know in advance you won’t be able to keep to, but that's a different
story.
There is a trick I learned a long time ago that is related to how
I feel about nyrs. The trick is this: when you are faced with a binary choice
that you are not sure about, flip a coin. But instead of doing what the
coin decides you pay close attention to your reaction. Sometimes you
do care whether you have eggs or pancakes, and it’s easier to tell in reaction
to being told which to have.
And in that theme
I would encourage you to think about what kind of resolutions you are
inclined to make and see if they shine a light on how you feel about where yourself
and your life is heading.
Making one melodramatic (and probably drunken) promise
to yourself almost certainly isn't going to get you to go to the
gym twice a week. But thinking about what it is you really want out of going
twice a week might tell you something about yourself.
However, if you
have goals, and you want to use the event of New Years to help, here is a tip
from TED:
http://www.ted.com/talks/lang/en/derek_sivers_keep_your_goals_to_yourself.html